It's about a year ago I set up this blog but didn't have a clue as to what I was doing, now I'm back again, still don't really know what I'm doing but taking action. So as my title says, many things have happened without me really trying too hard and that's what it is supposed to be about, intention, letting go, trusting and allowing.
In 2011 I returned from holiday in the South of France and kept a lovely photograph of myself stood posing on a luxury yacht, on my fridge. I wasn't consciously aware that I had any intention of up rooting yet again especially at the age of 52, I was happy in the UK with my little part time job and loved my little house but something deep was stirring as within 9 months I was living in Juan Les Pins, my house rented out, I had a job working with the yachting industry and a lovely little apartment with a pool and 5 mins walk from the beach.
Working hard but having a ball - there is more to this story but it all happened so easily once I made the decision, all sorted in 2 weeks from my laptop. The energy shifts when you make a decision, otherwise you remain in limbo.
I haven't been able to manifest lots of money for myself but I do manifest events which then lead to further success, financially and emotionally. Growing and learning constantly.
There are setbacks, I'm a Libran and as much as I like balance in my life when the scales tip I find it very difficult to feel good when on the tipping down side. To manifest what you want your emotional energetic vibration has to match. Lots of money doesn't really mean that much to me, helping others and the quality of life does and never having much I have no idea what it would feel like to have so much more. What I do know is, having suffered many disappointments in my life, I do deserve so much more and why shouldn't I have a piece of the cake too and think of all those people I could help?
So now being in a place where I feel so very grateful for everything I have, more things are starting to happen for me but not always in the way I expect, which is why I now ask and expect to receive what I have asked for OR something better!!
Faults started to show themselves during my first year, my little apartment became very noisy as it was mainly for holiday makers. Neighbours wearing shoes on tiled floors, getting up in the early hours and deciding to hoover. My nights became stressful and I was forced to wear earplugs and take herbal sleeping pills to try knock myself out. I had set up my Complementary Therapy business and was constantly worried about clients arrriving then the heels clicking. This wasn't good and I felt rather sad, I loved this little place. Yes loved it and had been so grateful for it, why was this happening?
I meditated on this for a while - light bulb moment 'PING' of course, something better is on it's way, my real desire would be to have a house again and no neighbours but the chance of that happening without living out in the sticks was unthinkable - impossible even, "Ooh no, should never use that word, anything is possible" and it is! I decided to ACCEPT, accept and told myself everything is as it should be.
The loveliest, affordable 2 bedroom detached villa with a garden came my way, not only that the ideal car, (which I did need at this point) became available to me the very day after.
For those people who constantly oppose change because of fear and preferring to stay comfortable and safe with what they already know and have, boy could you be in for a rough ride, if you're not prepared to learn and grow, which is why we're here on this planet you will very likely experience everything safe and comfortable crashing down around you and forcing you into something new and wonderful but could also be very scary! Trust and go with the flow, stop swimming against the current!!
I have more to tell but I would love to hear your stories of how things have worked out when you decided to surrender (give up even), the worry and fear of not being able to control the outcome yourself.
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Hi Karen, your blog is a great read! I have had similar experiences with the law of attraction. I managed to manifest a new life in France too! A friend put me on to the book the secret. the core principal of the book is that you should be grateful for what you already have and this puts you in a state of positivity. from this place you then ask the universe for what you want but hold a firm belief its coming, then feel intently what its like to receive the thing you asked for. I must admit the book and subsequent film seemed like cheesy american stuff to me but it worked! I did very little other than make a decision and tell others what I was going to do (with belief). I just put it out there an focussed. It sounds bizarre but there was little more to it.
ReplyDeleteRight now I want a new job. I focus on feeling grateful to have a job right now that pays so well with a good work life balance. There are minusses but Im not focussing on them....Ive made a decision and im focussing on what it will feel like when I get that new job.
i would like to draw on your experiences actually....... I was thinking, should I actually search for a job? OR alternatively focus on allowing a job into my life? Constant searching seems counterproductive to me (I think I just nswered my own question ;) )
Hi Lee,
ReplyDeleteYes I think you did answer your own question. I too believe that constant searching is counterproductive, the Art of Allowing is so important and I've manifested more for myself when I allow myself to receive, just be open and what seems to happen is I get better than what I actually asked for.
I have put this somewhere put it hasn't shown it for some reason so sorry if I'm repeating myself to some readers. This is a small example: My partner and I fancied a trip to St Tropez, easy arranged but I put out to the Universe that I wanted to go on a boat - wasn't quite specific enough, thinking there are ferries leaving Cannes on a daily basis. The Universe had something better planned for me. I have a little sideline working with the yachting industry here. It's a quiet time for me as they are all busy with guests/charters on board. Out of the blue I receive instruction to be at St Tropez port where a private Tender was coming to collect me and take me out to a luxury private 85m yacht. Okay I had to drive there but I got my trip out on a boat to an amazing yacht, got the deal and was paid for my services and products. Finished off with a nice evening meal in a lovely restaurant, ha ha!! It was so much fun and exciting so whilst I was i that place of fun and excitement, I asked for more and now allowing it to come into fruition. Without effort!!